What to do if just separated from your partner
What to do if just separated from your partner is a difficult and multi faceted problem often hitting a person out of the blue and consequently finding it hard to come to terms emotionally with the loss of a secure relationship, as divorce specialist family law solicitors will advise you. An experienced divorce lawyer is a must; do not be manipulated while vulnerable. At Stonehewer Moss solicitors the accredited specialist solicitor has 25 years experience, has been a member of the family solicitors group Resolution and collaborative lawyer for 10 years and will assess your legal position in the context of your personal needs and reasonable expectations for your family. Michael Brennan continues, “Having to see a lawyer when all you really want is to bury your head in the ground can be a hard step. Often it is a parent or close friend who needs to guide a separating person in the right directions, as it is all too tempting to go off the rails. I have had my share of life experience and hope you will find my approach reasoned and responsible. Your family is changing and seeing a solicitor is vital as the law underlies much of what you now must address, but an experienced family solicitor knows there is a lot more to it that the four walls of his office and can suggest other services that might help you along the way to finding a settled future in that changed family set up.”
Michael suggests an early chat with your GP is a good idea as it may be too late before you realise your behaviour is being altered by the stress of the separation. Counselling services can be accessed and other services if needed, such as anger management. Anger is acknowledged as part of the grieving process of divorce but that will not help you if you do something out of character that will reflect in your legal rights and possibly your liberty.
Finances and the children, together with a roof over your head are often the immediate issues to address. Visit the CAFCASS website for guidance for you and your children. Housing advice can be obtained through the CAB but the position of a legal owner to occupy the house may need a little time with a solicitor. The future ownership and distribution of value in the house and other assets certainly needs the attention of a divorce specialist and a search on the Resolution or Law Society website for accredited specialists in your area is best. For immediate guidance on benefits you may be entitled to, Michael recommends you visit www.moneyadviceservice.org.uk/en/articles/benefits-you-may-be-entitled-to-if-you-are-separating
The cost of legal advice really needs to factor in the cost of not taking it but a solicitor like Michael will usually be happy to have a no obligation chat before taking formal instructions.
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